Be a Dictator
As a father, I'm used to making decisions that don't always appeal to all family members. In such a situation of responsibility one can make it easier or harder for oneself. It's easier (and not just wrong) if you first look for yourself.
However, if you are eligible to ensure that a majority of those involved feel comfortable and happy, it becomes more difficult. This requires empathy, patience and a wealth of ideas. It gets particularly disgusting when there is time pressure.
Many are like me. It is exhausting to be decent all the time and not let yourself go. That is why I sometimes ask myself whether we do not have too high expectations of others. If it is already difficult in private, how can one expect the other – or even a public person such as a teacher, a politician, a king or another dignitary – to be a good person all the time?
I think it would be very welcome, before assuming a judgment, to look into the heads and hearts of those affected – at least one should strive to do so. Confucius once said:
However, if you are eligible to ensure that a majority of those involved feel comfortable and happy, it becomes more difficult. This requires empathy, patience and a wealth of ideas. It gets particularly disgusting when there is time pressure.
Many are like me. It is exhausting to be decent all the time and not let yourself go. That is why I sometimes ask myself whether we do not have too high expectations of others. If it is already difficult in private, how can one expect the other – or even a public person such as a teacher, a politician, a king or another dignitary – to be a good person all the time?
I think it would be very welcome, before assuming a judgment, to look into the heads and hearts of those affected – at least one should strive to do so. Confucius once said:
Demand a lot from yourself and expect little from others. This will save you trouble.
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